….MRA’s, MGTOW’s, PUA’s-Male Disposability….

Well, it’s becoming obvious that the three major ideologies within the manosphere are splitting up. Look at Roosh bashing MRA’s. And of course, MGTOW’s berate PUA’s as pussybeggars. There are other ideologies within the manosphere such as alter-righties. And of course, there was that clusterfuck Inmalafide. You had White Nationalists and all other sorts getting into all kinds of fights.

Anyways, lets see how a PUA, MRA and MGTOW may look upon male disposability.

PUA’s:

“It’s my job to “man up” and hit on/cold approach women. What’s a few drinks thrown in the face and hundreds of rejections for some sweet, tight poontang. Those other men with approach anxiety are beta mangina’s and average frustrated chumps who will go home to their hand and cry themselves to sleep with incel hate-rage.”

I’ll give PUA’s credit for one thing, in modern culture it is men who are expected to make sexual advances and take the risky initiative–and they acknowledge that reality without question. Sure, a woman may give off signals that she would like to be approached. She might even start conversations or lightly flirt. That being said, most men aside from rockstars and professional athletes will find casual sex and one night stands hard to come by. And many men might not even consider that a worthy goal. But if that’s you, well, I guess you can become a rockstar or make a shit-ton of cold approaches, let us know how it all works out-I’d love to check out the album…

Now rejection sucks. I tried online dating and had a disaster date. I’ve thought about blogging about the experience but even under a pseudonym, I’d rather not be laughed at online. It felt worse than being punched in the stomach and I woke up feeling down the next day. A similarly painful experience to when I was trying to find a job. I believe the reason that men are put into the initiator role is because of “male disposability.” There could be other reasons such as men having higher on average libidos (that is to say men as a group have higher libido’s although you may find women with libido’s far higher than the average man.) I asked feminist Clarisse Thorn if the reasons why men were left to the the heavy lifting of initiating and escalating a sexual encounter/relationship.

This was her reply:

“I don’t really care whether the difference is cultural or biological; those puzzles are impossible to untangle with humanity’s current toolset. I’m more interested in observing what’s actually going on and dealing with it.”

Her response seems to line up with PUA’s, “who cares why men are in this situation, make lots of approaches, quit being a sissy boy and deal with it.”

to be continued….

War with Daisy

okay Daisy…

first off you were never blocked from my blog….

comments went into the spam filter which I only sometimes check. It’s probably a blogspot thing….

No I do not want an echo chamber, you can see that I am much more open to dissent than many of your “sisters.”

Yes, I concede, you never called me a misogynist, I read one of your comments as “implying” that….

I am sick of going back and forth in comments so her is your post, you are not on moderation, you can say pretty much anything you want in reply here…

I will also stop referencing things said from genderratic unless I specifically link to it…

Yes, I distrust feminists, my mom is one and a second waver at that, she is a meanie and took out the rage on me that she couldn’t take out on my dad. Somehow, though, there’s a double standard, a woman hurt by a man gets to distrust all men but a man hurt by a woman is supposed to just get over it.

I’m not replying point by point in the previous comments, if you want to discuss a specific thing, drop a link to what was said before so I can reference that…

If you want to discuss a new thing than discuss that…

You can’t say that you are being ignored…

Have at it…

…it’s time to stop calling (mean) women bitches…

…back in the day I had an awesome dog. I might’ve killed myself in high school if it wasn’t for her. She didn’t like being locked up alone all day. She would only eat her dinner if I sat with her. Even though it was kind of tedious spoon feeding a fully grown dog it was often the high point of my day. She was a kind soul and the only living being who appreciated me during the hell that was my teen years. One of the saddest days of my life was when she was putt to sleep because she had a huge tumor that was inoperable…

…anyways, sometimes I’ll hear about an awful woman who chopped off her husband’s penis and invariable someone will call her a bitch. I find it degrading–it’s degrading to female dogs. Why be a parody of a hate movement that chanted Men Are Pigs! Leave being a parody of a hate movement to the lame MRA’s. Well, that’s just my 2 cents…

….you’re just bitter because you can’t get laid…

hahahaha, well, I don’t know who throws that phrase around more, angry feminazi’s or hbd/game lovin’ manospherians….

there’s the so-called shaming language, but I think even more is going on…

First, it’s an assault on one’s masculinity-purportedly a Real Man ™ should be able to go out and get sex, and if he dares complain about it on the internet, especially his inability to not only get sex but a loving relationship, he is a subhuman Nice Guy ™ piece of shit. Why do bigots like Amanda Marcotte and David Futrelle pick on incel men when they could call out the rotten behavior of Hugo Schwyzer? It’s also obvious that disagreeable guys like Roosh have to pick on sexually unsuccessful men to feel somewhat successful themselves. Oh, he’s gotten pussy, he must be better than you because he has more “notches.” Any guy with a pocket full of cash can get himself a plane ticket to a sex tourist destination and bang a 100+ prostitutes. It really isn’t a huge accomplishment. Can he do something cool like pick up a guitar and start shredding? Could he hang on a mountainbike trail? I bet he’d fall off and start crying that he is lacking energy not because he is a beta mangina but because he has started the “ketonic” phase of his paleo diet. If those Eastern European women are half as great as he claims, don’t you think he woulda found “the one” by now? Don’t you think he would’ve found a cool, sexy lady to travel with if not marry? Aren’t you getting the impression that a bigger part of his “mission” than pursuing the pleasures of the flesh is putting down low status men?

Even more interesting is when you take a look at the mess that is modern feminism. If there is a unifying belief, it would be in women’s reproductive rights. That is birth control, the ability to get an abortion if pregnancy occurs and even visiting a fertility clinic or going to a sperm bank to conceive. Ironic that a core component of feminism is when or if a woman will have children, then that same feminist tries to dismiss a man’s feelings by saying he is “bitter because he can’t get laid.” Let’s unpack this a little more. Men’s only options for birth control are condoms or a vasectomy. A woman has many more, including abortion. If you get a woman pregnant and she decides to keep the baby, you’ll be paying until the kid is 18. If she decides to abort, well it doesn’t matter what your feeling are. Her body–her choice, you’ve been paying attention, right? And in some countries, if you aren’t sure the baby is yours, you are a criminal if you try to find out.

So, if a man is complaining about his inability to get dates, he might be complaining about being able to get to the first step of having a chance at fatherhood. If a man was romantically unsuccessful in his late teens and twenties, he might find in his thirties that he is getting some attention from women his age. However, if they are divorced and have had kids with other men he might feel these women aren’t his peers. He might feel that he would like to find a younger woman who has never been married and wants to have kids. Well, just look at the shaming that will bring you. You’ll be told to stay in your own league. You’ll be told that those women deserve a second chance even though you’ve never had a first chance. Maybe this is what Rollo Tomassi refers to as the feminine imperative. Funny how you see those condescending “man up” articles. Where are the “woman up” articles? Equality, equality motherfuckers! How come you are a misogynist, if as a never married man who doesn’t have children and refuses to qualify it with “not that I know of” like a male feminist extraordinaire, you refuse to “man up” and “marry a slut.” How come you are looked down upon if you cite the statistic that divorcee’s are bad marriage prospects?

Funny how a movement that claims to be about equality will dismiss many men’s concerns with condescending phrases like “teh patriarchy hurts menz too” and “what about teh menz.” It’s pretty clear to me that feminist’s and “men” like Roosh aren’t on my side.

…getting fuct on social media…

I don’t do twitter or facebook…

Haha, and if I did have a twitter account, it wouldn’t scream hard working perfeshunal….

It would probably have different versions of the Harlem Shake. That stuff Never gets old.

–and just to show I’m not a hater, here’s one for the ladies and all the dongle huffing WN alter-righties…

…and now that we’re on the topic of dongles, I’m sure you’ve heard of Donglegate. Hehe, someone made an innapropriate joke and now two people don’t have jobs. I thought, well, it’s one thing to inform a venue that someone is violating the terms of service and have them booted out. It’s a whole other to shame them on the internet and cause one to lose their job. Well, if your the shamer and you also cause your employer to get hit with a DOS Attack it’s only fair that you are also in the unemployment line in this day of at-will employment. (Or maybe she planned it and there’ll be a huge lawsuit.) Seems like every couple of days you hear about someone putting their foot in their mouth on twitter and then trying to apologize. Seems like it’s better not to mess with the whole thing…

and, for someone who would like to go ghost, fucking social media seems pretty needy. Hahaha, when you stop seeing blog posts, hopefully that’ll be good news for me. I’ll be off on some tropical island, sitting on a beach with no connection to my mean spirited family. Sitting on a pile of cash without any worries. My only friend will be my dog. I’ll eat well and maybe keep a small rotation of high class prostitutes. I’ll pretty much be a hermit otherwise….

…more on why I’m not an MRA and why do sub-par men perpetuate the Nice Guy ™ meme…

…so I was reading some eve-psychy type blog where they talked about a pride of lions. 7 out of 10 male cubs would not make it to adulthood. Of the three that did, one would be cast out to hunt on his own. The other two would be that whole PUA dichotomy of alpha and beta. That is one got all the pussy and the other was there to help with the heavy lifting. Well, I haven’t studied lions and I don’t know how accurate this is. However….

I’ve read thousands of articles across the gendersphere. I’ve even adopted a few MRA talking points on this blog. But, I’ve never fully fit in with that crowd. Truth be told, I don’t have very many male friends in real life. I’ve always hated sports and never been a “guy’s guy.” Leave the “all male spaces” to guys like Matt Forney, Jack Donovan and everyone’s favorite “white guy with a tan,” Roosh. I don’t want to know what happens when they get blackout drunk, but I bet they feel sore sitting on hard surfaces the next day. So I read a PUA blog where he talked about “cockblocking.” Long story short, most men aren’t your friend’s, they are your competitors. This is the main reason a men’s right movement will fail. Or as a snarky commenter once said, “Most MRA’s are one blow job away from not being MRA’s.”

Those feminist’s with all their talk of patriarchy don’t know shit. Look how men will gladly send other men to die in worthless wars for oil. Look how men will gladly let other men toil away for low wages and tell them to man-up. Look at how all those alter-righty types look up to the 1% and still believe in the trickle down effect. Yeah, Mr. GL Piggy, RMoney was gonna save you from the MSM, SWPL’s, the POC’s and NAM’s, but could anyone save you from having your head that far up your @$$. It is ironic how other men will believe all the fairy tales that if they just “man-up” the world will be their oyster. Think I’m over exaggerating? Just go read some manosphere blogs and look at all the White Nationalists and other assorted crack-pots. Those shitheads aren’t my “brothers.” Patriarchy schmatriarchy, there is no secret conspiracy where men all collude together to opress women, if anything, same gender competition is the most cutthroat.

Interestingly enough, I read an amazing comment by Jacalope

The problem is that the Nice Guy is the target of a modern witch hunt. The Nice Guy is considered a target, a wounded man because he dares speak out about his loneliness. Women don’t like that, and men who are too obsessed with sexual competition, see him as a target. All the nasty things said about nice guys are nothing but rationalizations for women having no compassion for emotionally distressed men, and men following their animal competitive instinct.

Before we can address the attack on nice guys, first we need to know what it is based on. It is not based on what women say it is. It is based on the feeding frenzy instinct, the desire for women to cull men from the herd to reduce unwanted attention, and for men it is to reduce competition.

I’ve said before that fatuous Manboobz bigot is a bully. Why is he so invested in the Nice Guy meme? Could it be that it is easier (and politically safe) for him to bully men who dare show their loneliness and vulnerability on the web than to get the McDonald’s cheeseburger and diet soda outta his face and get on a mountianbike? Battering shy, lonely men about their lack of sexual success doesn’t seem like any social justice movement I’d want to be a part of, or is that Social Justice ™. Maybe, you missed the Nice Guys of Okay Cupid debackle, well, even a moderate in the gender debate, Ally Fogg is starting to call out some of the bullying.

These are not rank misogynists and wannabe rapists, they’re not even showing any particular sense of privilege or entitlement. On the contrary, many of the entries come across as more self-pitying, bitter or pathetic than those above. Those are not attractive qualities, but they are sadly common among people who are at an extremely low ebb emotionally, or struggling with depression. I think it is not only immoral, but potentially dangerous to place them in the 21st Century equivalent of the medieval stocks to be mocked, abused and humiliated. The blog struck me less as a blow against privilege, and more as ugly bullying of people who already feel like losers.

…and, yeah, I did use some shaming language–go look at the bloggers I attacked. If anything, they’re the types who can dish it out but not take it. And I’ll leave it there….

….amsterdam…

…so, let’s say do to “business” or some other circumstances you were left in this town where drugs and prostitution is legal…

…the catch is, due to limited finances and time constraints, you’d only get to choose one indulgence, which would it be???

leave comments, this’ll be fun…