…are women as horny as men???

I saw this video at Maggie McNeill’s and thought it was funnier than shit…

13 thoughts on “…are women as horny as men???

  1. I heard a standup comic put it this way:

    “Yes, women, I’m sure you DO think you feel lust. I’m sure you even get a bit horny, in your own cute little way. From time to time. But remember this: You know the way you feel when you’re flat-out desperate and on the prowl? That’s the way men feel when we’re not even THINKIN’ about it.”

    1. Copyleft…

      A few women seem to deny that men and women have differing sex drives, then a few seem to say it is “biological” while others say it is “cultural”-ie “patriarchy” and “slut shaming.” Ironically, in my eyes, this somewhat mirrors the “differences” between Elam and Stardusk-one saying “male disposability” is “cultural” and the other saying it is “biological”-the irony being that the MRA seemingly has a similar view to the feminist…

      I’m gonna try to get an article together soon…

  2. Hey Stoner,

    I know this is an old post, but I just want to say that the women in the video were basically me. I would love to go to a male strip club but most of them only have uber-buff guys which aren’t to my taste. I’ve thought about masturbating when I wake up at 3am horny as hell with my FwB in the bed next to me, but never have because it seems disrespectful. And yes, I’ve had to move away from guys that are wearing kilts or pants that show off too much (but I’d never be as classless as the women in the video who blatantly stare…that’s creepy and impolite).

    Maybe I’m a freak, but I think about sex all the time. Random guy bends over in front of me to tie his shoe at the mall? Think about sex. Notice my FwB has morning wood? Think about sex. Taking a shower…hells yeah, I’m thinking about sex. Guy on the train over and across from me is sleeping with his legs apart and has a mini-boner from the vibration of the wheels? Yup, the next 10 minutes are spent exclusively on wondering what his full erection looks like and how he uses it. It’s constant, even if there’s no visual stimulus. On Tuesday, I was in a meeting going over sales figures and the weekly budget, and I had to keep mentally punching my brain because it kept trying to think about the last time my FwB was over…I’m like “No brain. No. Stop it. I have to think about numbers, not cock and balls. What? Yes, obviously that’s preferable, but it’s not appropriate right now. Gods damn it, brain, knock it off! I can’t be getting hot and hard at this moment. Just go to sleep, sexy brain parts!

    1. I believe *some* women are as horny as men based on posts such as yours-however, if women as a group were as horny as men there wouldn’t be a sex industry catering towards men. It’s not patriarchy that men are paying for sex but economics.

      If you want to see naked men of all shapes and sizes, take yourself to a nudist beach or other such venue, just remember to wear sunglasses.

      Also, since you don’t “sleep around” that is different to how I am wired. Would I rather have an exclusive relationship with one woman-a super model or sleep with 10 women, most of them being plain. I’d prefer the second and I know I’m not the only guy like this, that’s why you see famous guys hooking up with the maid even though they have supermodel wives.

      1. I have porn for looking at nude men, and of course various Tumblr sites where men can post pics of their packages. Already got my favorites bookmarked, heh.

        Sad thing is, I’d rather have many “average” partners as well (I think actors like Robin Williams and Robert Carlyle are far more attractive than the Brad Pitts and Channing Tatums of the world), but am held back due to my struggles with haphephobia. I’m getting better…I can shake hands with complete strangers and don’t automatically step away from hugs anymore…but even if I’m horny as fuck and desirous of some guy I know is single, I think about actually having sex with them and freeze. Far too much touching, far too quickly.

        What the hell am I supposed to do? Go up to a guy and say “Hey, I think you’re attractive and would like to have sex with you, but I need probably 6 months or so to actually get used to your touch/body enough to do so”?

        Yeah, right. I can totally see that going over well and not accidentally taken as a cruel joke or offensive to their looks. /sarcasm

      2. Oh, I didn’t really articulate it well in the last post-it’s not so much that I desire plain women over attractive women, it’s that I desire variety over beauty. Subtle difference.

        Also, as I’m talking to more people, seems like I’ve viewed far less porn than average and done far more mind altering substances….

        As far as women approaching men, I have no idea how they would do it, just that they should do it more. As far as being awkward and being rejected-that’s ever man’s reality….

      3. I’m not afraid of being rejected, though. I’m afraid of my advances/offer of sex being accepted but then unable to follow through. Hard to come up with a good analogy. Hmmm. Okay, it’s like being severely lactose intolerant but craving milkshakes 24/7. It would be tremendously easy to go buy one, and you’ve had them in the past so you know they are delicious and would satisfy your craving, but there’s also the knowledge that once you begin to consume this delightful food it will give you horrible stomach cramps and nausea.

        That’s what it’s like. Knowing that sex is great from experience with my FwB and wanting desperately to share it with other men, but simultaneously knowing I may have flashbacks or be unable to actually partake of the sex once it’s in my grasp. It took me nearly a year to have sex with my lover, and that’s with him being patient, understanding of my issues, and willing to go slowly so I could get used to the reality of physical closeness.

        I’m not a cruel person.
        I couldn’t do that to anyone without also letting them know why it would take me a long time to have sex with them, even though I want it now. However, that would involve more sharing of information and time than is normal for casual sex, and kinda defeats the purpose of it.

        It hurts and is incredibly frustrating, but it’s better that I work on my issues and remain horny than to constantly tease myself with something I can’t have.

      4. It is pretty similar. Both situations have to do with mental blockages that affect our otherwise physical/sexual decisions.

        Were that things could be different…

      5. It’s not really a mental blockage for me-it’s a cost benefits analysis. And my mind trumps my biology. I only realized recently that my mind was always trumphing my biology.

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